2020

Here are some things that happened in 2020. Let’s start with some pre-pandemic activities:

I witnessed the magic that was Bachelor Live (yes those are dancers doing choreography in front of a crying montage).

Visited Lava Hot Springs twice!

Saw two concerts: King Princess and Best Coast (Best Coast was on March 6!)

Saw a few Sundance movies:

Rejoiced when Parasite won best picture:

Not pictured: Amy, photo taker and cake maker extraordinaire

Celebrated Galentines:

The pandemic and quarantine hit and I did 1 million puzzles, took 1 million walks, drank 1 million Maverik diet cokes, and logged on 1 million zoom calls. I ordered take out, wore tie dye sweats, played house party, watched all the Mission Impossible movies, practiced yoga, had a zoom slime night, watched as many outdoor movies as possible (Courtesy of casa Wightman and the SLFS Drive In), took in a few of those zoom reunions/ watch alongs (Some Kind of Wonderful and John Mulaney & the Sack Lunch Bunch come to mind), and tried new hobbies (looking at you punch stitching). In addition to the pandemic, Salt Lake City also hosted an earthquake and a wind storm with hurricane level speeds which was as you can imagine, really *great* for everyone’s mental health.

I read these books (I starred my favorites):

  • The Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Change the World, Melinda Gates *
  • The Other Windsor Girl: A Novel of Princess Margaret Royal Rebel, Georgie Blalcock
  • Pieces of Her, Karin Slaughter *
  • The Thunderhead, Neal Shusterman
  • The Toll, Neal Shusterman
  • Esperanza Rising, Pam Munoz Ryan *
  • The Night the Lights Went Out, Karen White
  • Merci Suarez Changes Gears, Meg Medina *
  • With the Fire on High, Elizabeth Acevedo *
  • Skyward, Brandon Sanderson *
  • Time After Time, Lisa Grunwald
  • Here for It: Or, How to Save Your Soul in America, R. Eric Thomas *
  • Mexican Gothic, Silvia Moreno-Garcia
  • Small Spaces, Katherine Arden
  • Out to Get You: 13 Tales of Weirdness and Woe, Josh Allen *
  • Lies Jane Austen Told Me, Julie Wright
  • Leave the World Behind, Alam Rumaan (technically haven’t finished this one yet)
  • Spinning Silver, Naomi Novik *
  • The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe, C.S. Lewis *

Listened to these podcasts:

  • Bachelor Party
  • The Big Picture
  • The Rewatchables
  • The Connect
  • Conan O’Brien Needs a Friend
  • Girl Meets Show
  • Who? Weekly
  • Be There in Five
  • Unlocking Us with Brene Brown
  • The Daily
  • Smartless

I completed a “tour” of local parks.

I also tried to take full advantage of the beauty of Utah including two earthworks: the spiral jetty and the sun tunnels.

Made some things including Spanish tortilla, a COVID pinata (HBD Amy), macrame plant holders for my gurls, and a rainbow candy board in honor of the premiere of The Home Edit TV show.

Courtney and I became addicted to pour paintings and spread that addiction to as many people as possible:

I worked on my creative endeavors by attending Storymakers Conference online. Gabby and I also started a tradition of “Sister night” where my sister and I facetime once a week and work on creative projects.

One of the good unexpected moments of 2020 was I decided to buy a house! A cute condo in a neighborhood I love. I loved walking around the neighborhood this year, especially at Halloween (everyone went all out). It was definitely a change and a little scary, but I’m so glad I took the leap!

Look at all these amazing friends who helped us move during a pandemic!

Embraced the camping life (which included sleeping in a hammock and driving my Dad’s camper van to Yellowstone).

Felt grateful for friendships near and far:

Rented a theater out to enjoy White Christmas on the big screen

Continued to be obsessed with this baby niece of mine. I was lucky enough to see her this year despite the pandemic. I’m trying to teach her the right things, like being loyal to Bucees (don’t worry it’s water in there, but one day she’ll join her Auntie and Mom in their diet coke and diet dr. pepper runs).

And then, right before I said goodbye to 2020, I said goodbye to my wonderful Grandma

2020, you were a strange year, full of the tough and surreal, but also full of so many acts of kindness and miracles.

I hope 2021 holds good things for all of us!

Currently: Replacing my “Hallmark” movie obsession with my non-seasonal true crime obsession now that December is over.

Because It’s Christmas

Usually every year around this time, my friend Jordyn and I host a party where we watch as many made for TV Christmas movies as possible. We spend all night basking in the glow that is true love on Christmas with a ghost/boss/or someone else’s fiancé and the heat created between the friction of a single career woman in her late twenties and her mother who “just wants you to settle down before it’s too late.” The best part is it’s generally contagious. Every year, we meet someone else who shares the obsession. I get that this may not seem novel in 2020, but there was a time when these gems weren’t as widely celebrated.

Since I can’t spend this year cozied up with friends eating from a communal table of pizza, my 2020 Christmas gift to you is the at home made-for-tv Christmas experience. Ideally this would include a choice between a handsome craftsman from your hometown who values the simple life or a secret prince from a small European country of your choosing, but I can only upload pdfs. So here you go:

Bingo Cards

Here are some boards we used last year. Or go to this website (be sure to click the Christmas theme) and make your own: https://myfreebingocards.com/bingo-card-generator

Movie Guides

There is a lot of content out there. A few years ago I started making movie guides and it made ALL THE DIFFERENCE. We never make it all the way down the list (and you still run into some duds), but it’s a lot easier to make your picks when it’s narrowed down (Jordyn and I always preview the first 20 minutes at least which filters out a lot of lemons).

Here’s the 2020 Very Merry Christmas Marathon Movie Guide which includes new movies as well as some of my older favorites:

Here’s the 2019 Very Merry Christmas Marathon Movie Guide

Here’s the 2018 Very Merry Christmas Marathon Movie Guide

Snacks & Beverages

Last but not least, I suggest you order in pizza and rename your soda options to be more festive. Here are some drink menus we’ve done before to inspire you:

Extra Credit

Can’t get enough? Here’s a round up of Hallmark related content for you:

The Popcast- Episode 378 – The Nos of Hallmark Movies

Hot Pink Pineapples – I like following Cyn all year round, but she’s especially fun to follow at Christmastime. She does her own review of all the movies and posts followers’ reviews too. She’s also doing some giveaways this year.

Who? Weekly – If you haven’t heard of Who? Weekly, their slogan is “Everything you need to know about the celebrities you don’t.” Bobby and Lindsey are sure to cover all your made for tv Christmas needs. Here’s their 2019 episode.

Hallmark Dating Show Sketch – SNL

NPR Pop Culture Happy Hour – 12/6/18 – ‘Tis The Season: We Talk Hallmark Holiday Movies

Finally this worksheet that helps you write the plot of your own pandemic “Hallmark” movie (source unknown)

Currently: Wishing you a plot line that doesn’t heavily rely on being related to Santa

2019

Here are some things that happened in 2019:

I welcomed a lot of cute babies into the world, including my my first niece, Norah, in July!! A lot of those babies were new cousins: Charlotte (January), Mark (November), and Ryker (Who was technically born in 2018, but his blessing was in 2019). I also had a blast celebrating Pasha and Malone!

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I created a vision board, painted pumpkins, made friendship bracelets, and did other artsy crafty things.

It was a big year for concerts: Kelly Clarkson, The 1975, Lizzo, Jenny Lewis, Aly & AJ, Jimmy Eat World/ Third Eye Blind, Geographer, Carly Rae Jepsen, Ariana Grande, Matt and Kim, Santigold, Bon Iver, Marina, Vampire Weekend, Charli XCX, Ingrid Michaelson, Kim Petras, and Angel Olsen. Plus a few twilight concerts from afar like Courtney Barnett.

2019 concerts

I read these books:

  • The Hazelwood, Melissa Albert
  • Educated, Tara Westover
  • The Tattooist of Auschwitz, Heather Morris
  • Where the Crawdads Sing, Delia Owens (If you read this, you NEED to check out this article)
  • The Night Circus, Erin Morgenstern
  • The Joy Luck Club, Amy Tan
  • The Westing Game, Ellen Raskin
  • The River, Peter Heller
  • The Witch of Willow Hall, Hester Fox
  • To Night Owl from Dogfish, Holly Goldberg Sloan
  • The Rest of the Story, Sarah Dessen
  • Burning Glass, Kathryn Purdie
  • The Paper Magician, Charlie N. Holmberg
  • Little Women, Louisa May Alcott (In Progress)
  • Night Shift, Stephen King (In Progress)

Read most of those books with this book club, which has been going strong for 10 years!!

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Had a lot of friends move! Some short distances (RIP the compound) and some much farther (Too far. Looking at you Caity and Jenny).

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I know this picture is blurry but it truly captures the spirit of karaoke so it stays.

Weighed in on the Popeyes/ Chick-fil-a sandwich debate

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Had fun pool times with these party people:

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Dyed my hair red.

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Was called into the Young Women program at my Church and had lots of adventures with the girls and other leaders including fake camping, graveyard scavenger hunts, sushi go, ax throwing, service projects, yoga, paper flowers, lessons in car maintenance, a Harry Potter themed YW in Excellence, and flag making.

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Attended my first Storymakers Conference with my writing group and had a blast!

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Was influenced by these accounts:

  • The Home Edit
  • A Beautiful Mess
  • Be There in 5
  • Britta_Beauty
  • Things I Bought and Liked
  • well.read.book.club
  • Timothy Goodman
  • Knorpp and South
  • Jordan Sondler
  • Jordan Ferney
  • Busy Philipps
  • Indy Blue
  • Ann Danger
  • Big Bud Press
  • Laura Izumikawa
  • Notengaged
  • Christina Winkelmann
  • Any and all astrology memes

Got to see West Hollywood in all its glory at Halloween:

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Welcomed Shake Shack to Utah!

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Watched a lot of movies, everything from Sundance films and Oscar nominees to made-for-tv Christmas masterpieces:

Enjoyed some live shows as well (not pictured – Freaky Friday):

And a fashion show! Watching my friend Laura’s husband, Afa, compete on Project Runway was so fun and seeing his live show was also incredible.

Listened to some podcasts:

  • Conan O’Brien Needs a Friend
  • The Rewatchables
  • Girl Meets Show
  • Bachelor Party
  • Cold
  • Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
  • The Hottest Take
  • Boss Hags

Visited St. George, Lava Hot Springs, and Disneyland!

Checked in on the Bees

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Continued my faithful patronage of the Utah State Fair

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Was a less faithful patron to Lagoon, but still managed to make it a couple of times (as in only two times – and I had the season pass!)

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Tried a clean beauty box and became obsessed with Gua Sha (which I don’t have a picture of for some reason? but here’s a different box. They always come with a little print.)

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My parents and Gabby came to Utah to visit me

Discovered a new Houston place: Smithers Park

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And lastly, took this mirror selfie, which has a mantra I think we should all take with us into 2020. Happy New Year Everyone!

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Currently: Grateful that Gabby is in Utah for New Year’s Eve this year